Is it an A or an A+

Well, you guessed it right. I am talking of the grades that define the magnitude of success your child would deserve. I mean really...is it? The kids and parents these days are jostling but all for the wrong reasons.

I remember we used to be super excited knowing that we were going to maternal grandparents' house. These days the kids cry out for Kidzania!
We did be waiting for our cousins to gather during holidays so that we could play and run around each other but today the kids wait for PS4s/Video games!

Is it really a generation difference?? No...its all mind game that we are playing  with none other than ourselves. Yes, we are heading towards a direction where we are teaching our kids to rise and set the sun as per their convenience. I mean, come on, I urge you to let that be a natural process. Let them feel the heat and grow as individuals that adds up to their experience. Do not write the pages of their book, rather, let them be the authors of their own!!

Me: Hey! what's up? Tell me one thing - I always see your child watching something or the other on  phone/tab. What is it?

Parent: Ahh..a routine. You know, my baby has to watch some video or play a game while we feed      him (or in case he takes that effort to eat all by himself).

Routine....really??Hmm (a deep sigh)! My heart goes out for you my dear friend -  your kiddo is definitely not going to be a gadget reviewer when he grows up but yes be prepared to see your prince/princess  in a big , round and thick pair of extra eyes that he would soon wear up!

One interesting conversation (that I initially thought it to be but later realized, damn, I was the speaker) with a family having a kid aged 12 years and me. So it goes like:

Me: Hello, how are you?

Kid: Shy away; Parent: Looks at the kid.

Me: You have  a very shy child 😊. So what are you doing these days, beta?

Kid: Hides behind his mommy.

Me: Looks at the parent (in a state - is anyone going to answer me)

Parent: He is a champ - has won a gold medal in maths quiz, goes for swimming and takes up dance   classes besides being a topper.

Me: Great! Good luck beta.

Kid: Walks off.

Me: Still wondering - where is the child's response to my hello and bye? Leave all the other things I    asked him. As a matter of fact, where is the parent's response to the same.
I still remember my mother would emphasize and ask me to reciprocate to anyone talking to me  and not make the situation weird.

Teach them to be competitive - in a way to evaluate yourself and see if you have learnt anything new and progressed than yesterday.
Teach them the basic course of humanity and civic sense, they will burnish to the advanced course eventually. Stop enforcing advance courses - Watch out!You and your kid are both gulping in the basics.

An A or A+ has never defined and will never ever define the magnitude of success. Agree, there is a lot of competition and we have to stand it but let that be  a healthy one - who can offer help to the unknown, makes people around him feel comfortable. Let them be a reason of smile on others' faces😊.
Give them a bicycle so that they can pave out the way for themselves.

Teach them the importance of relationships and that relations are not meant to reap out the advantages from them. Teach them that the maid working at your place is not just "Bala" or "Jharna". Infact, they need to be called out as "Bala didi" or "Jharna aunty".

This is not something new that am putting up but yes, definitely, it is a recall of the essence that is forgotten and left behind.
Take them along and gear up yourselves for a better world we want to create and leave behind for generations to come!