Sunday, September 24, 2017

Happy Parenting!


More than anything i.e. what is my name, what is my religion, what is my caste, where do I belong to, what is my blood group...I feel, the thing that is important is that I am a "Human Being". And being a human, we all have undergone changes in our emotions since the time of our childhood, as vast as sea....rather..as vast as the sky which has no finite limits!
We are born one day after our mother takes that pain, then we give birth to another generation and the chain goes on likewise. For some, the angels are born, for some prince charming is born and for some the supreme power - the Lord has taken birth (i.e. the families think this child has taken birth to get them rid off from all the sorrows and worries and bring them good fortune). So many feelings and emotions are attached. While some people think in this way, there are a bunch of people who never wanted that baby, consider him to have brought misfortunes, consider him a mistake!!
Life is full of crests and troughs..isn't it?? It is of course!! For some people, all is well observed and seen by other people very clearly, while for few, you need to raise the curtain up. All that I mean to say is that the fortunes/misfortunes, good luck and all such things are not related to any child's birth. Rather, he brings with him the joy, the reason to smile, and acts as an energy booster when you are all tired and really want some break!
Let me tell you, not all are that lucky to live up to the feeling of parenthood. Some have it, some adopt it while others simply become happy seeing other parents playing with their child. You get another chance to relive your childhood :). Is not that fortunate enough for us!
Try to be thankful, modest, humble, loving and caring. Words that are often said in aggressive mood cannot be taken back. It just takes a fraction of a second to finish all your relationships but whole life to mend it. Respect and value them before they are lost forever. Parent child relation is one of the purest form of love and care that anyone could have. Many unspoken things are being said and understood by parents ,which, only God has the power to that , but that too after our parents.
It has been rightly said "God cannot be everywhere, so he created mothers". Value them else its too late.

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